The Virginia Pilot at times has a section titled "how rude!" Readers send in their stories of how others have mistreated them or just acted like complete asses. Monday's paper had a little story about cyclists in it. Here is what is says:
There are always two sides to every story, but in this case only one was published in the newspaper. Cycling is supposed to ease our stresses and give us an outlet to vent and release our troubles. I know if I'm having a bad day, a hard ride eases me and gives me a constructive way to vent. I know this is true for many people, yet cyclist still hold onto a "road rage" style of anger toward everyone we are supposed to be sharing the road with.Valerie Jones of Virginia Beach was driving down Atlantic Avenue when she slowed down to let two racing bikers have the full lane where the road narrows (because of construction) to one lane each way at 60th Street. It was safer, she figured, to let the bikers go ahead of her despite the growing line of traffic behind her. One biker even waved a "thank you." When the road switched back to two lanes, Jones eased into the left lane as the bikers stayed in the right. Suddenly, one biker veered into her lane to turn left without signaling. She swerved and missed him, but he cussed her out- after she had gone out of her way to be courteous on the roadway.
I'm not saying I'm perfect in this manner. There are times I get startled by a car passing too close, or blowing their horn and my initial reflex is one of anger. Just remember the next time you cuss at someone or flip them the finger, your story could end up in the paper and give the rest of us bad names.